Joy Fun Connection
Playfulness; creating positive experiences; laughter; lightness; maintaining excitement; enjoying togetherness
Laughter and play keep marriage alive beyond duty. When you create fun, you remind your wife why she fell in love. Joy is the antidote to the heaviness of life's responsibilities and keeps the relationship fresh.
“Why not a virgin so that you could play with her and she with you?”
“O Aisha! Haven't you got any amusement during the marriage ceremony as the Ansar like amusement?”
“the Prophet would call them to join and play with me.”
“I replied in the affirmative. Then the Prophet (p.b.u.h) made me stand behind him and my cheek was touching his cheek and he was saying, 'Carry on! O Bani Arfida,' till I got tired.”
“there were with her two girls on Adha days who were singing and beating the tambourine.”
“Abu Dharr narrated that the Messenger of Allah said : "Your smiling in the face of your brother is charity, commanding good and forbidding evil is charity, your giving directions to a man lost in the land is charity for you.”
“Thereupon the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) laughed so heartily that I could see his molar teeth.”
“He would compete with me and I would with him until he would say: 'Leave me some' and I would say: 'Leave me some.'”
“The Prophet raced with me and I beat him.”
“he used to bring my friends to me to play with me.”
“playing with his wife”