Principled Leadership
Leads the marriage from inner conviction and self-mastery rather than insecurity or ego; sets a steady, positive tone for the home.
“used to keep his family awake for the prayers”
“None of you could control his sexual desires as the Prophet (ﷺ) could.”
“Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) came to me when Allah ordered him to give option to his wives.”
“These effeminate (men) should not enter upon you (your houses).”
“Who will go and wake the sleeping ladyoccupants up of these dwellings (for praying)?”
“he had the greatest control over his desire”
“he came to his wife, Zainab, as she was tanning a leather and had sexual intercourse with her.”
“The Prophet (ﷺ) saw a woman so he entered upon Zainab daughter of Jahsh and had intercourse with her.”
“This is more purifying, better and cleaning.”
“She struck the hand of the Prophet and the bowl fell and broke. The Prophet picked up the two pieces and put them together”
“O Allah, this is what I am doing with regard to that which is within my control, so do not hold me accountable for that which is under Your control and is beyond my control.”
“The best of you is the one who is best to his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives.”