Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 67, Hadith 166
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Narrated Ibn `Abbas: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "No man should stay with a lady in seclusion except in the presence of a Dhu- Muhram." A man stood up and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! My wife has gone out intending to perform the Hajj and I have been enrolled (in the army) for such-and-such campaign." The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Return and perform the Hajj with your wife."
How the Prophet ص modelled this behaviour here
Attentive Presence
“Return and perform the Hajj with your wife.”
Gives his wife focused attention and genuine curiosity about her thoughts, feelings and inner world; listens and is fully present rather than distracted.