Sunan Ibn Majah - Book 10, Hadith 22
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It was narrated from 'Aishah that: 'Amrah bint Jawn sought refuge.with Allah from the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) when she was brought to him (as a bride) He said: "You have sought refuge with Him in Whom refuge is sought." So he divorced her and told Usamah or Anas to give her, a gift of three garments of white flax.
How the Prophet ص modelled 2 behaviours here
Emotional Steadiness
“He said: "You have sought refuge with Him in Whom refuge is sought."”
Stays calm, composed and non-reactive when his wife is upset, angry or withdrawn; does not retaliate, get defensive, or escalate in the moment.
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This hadith also models: Generosity & Provision
Generosity & Provision
“So he divorced her and told Usamah or Anas to give her, a gift of three garments of white flax.”
Generously provides for and maintains his wife and household; is openhanded with sustenance rather than stingy.
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This hadith also models: Emotional Steadiness