So if you desire I can spend a week with you, and if you like I may spend three (nights). and then I will visit you in turn. She said: Spend three (nights).
How the Prophet ﷺ modelled 4 behaviours here
“he (the Holy Prophet) said to her: There is no lack of estimation for you on the part of your husband.”
Remaining calm; showing gentleness; demonstrating patience; understanding perspectives; showing compassion
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“So if you desire I can spend a week with you, and if you like I may spend three (nights).”
Joint decision-making; teamwork; shared goals; unified vision; collaborative problem-solving
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“So if you desire I can spend a week with you, and if you like I may spend three (nights).”
Setting and honoring healthy boundaries rooted in core values; respecting her boundaries while maintaining your own; supporting independence without control
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“There is no lack of estimation for you on the part of your husband.”
Open, honest, and authentic communication; active listening; clarity in dialogue; emotional disclosure
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