Sahih Muslim - Book 18, Hadith 36
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'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) gave us the option (to get divorce) and we chose him and he did not count it a divorce.
How the Prophet ﷺ modelled this behaviour here
Boundaries Respect Autonomy
“Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) gave us the option (to get divorce) and we chose him and he did not count it a divorce.”
Setting and honoring healthy boundaries rooted in core values; respecting her boundaries while maintaining your own; supporting independence without control