Sahih Muslim - Book 46, Hadith 52
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Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying: A strong believer is better and is more lovable to Allah than a weak believer, and there is good in everyone, (but) cherish that which gives you benefit (in the Hereafter) and seek help from Allah and do not lose heart, and if anything (in the form of trouble) comes to you, don't say: If I had not done that, it would not have happened so and so, but say: Allah did that what He had ordained to do and your" if" opens the (gate) for the Satan.
How the Prophet ﷺ modelled 2 behaviours here
Personal Growth Self Improvement
“Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying: A strong believer is better and is more lovable to Allah than a weak believer, and there is good in everyone, (but) cherish that which gives you b...”
Self-reflection; continuous learning; behavior change; emotional maturity; pursuing goals
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This hadith also models: Personal Identity Purpose
Personal Identity Purpose
“The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, while there is good in both. Strive for that which will benefit you, seek the help of Allah, and do not feel helpless.”
Maintaining your own purpose and passions outside of the relationship; remaining an independent and inspiring partner with your own mission and growth
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This hadith also models: Personal Growth Self Improvement