Sunan an-Nasa'i - Book 26, Hadith 65
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It was narrated from Ibn 'Abbas that the Messenger of Allah said: "A previously married woman has more right to decide about herself (with regard to marriage) than her guardian, and a virgin should be asked for permission with regard to marriage, and her permission is her silence."
How the Prophet ﷺ modelled this behaviour here
Boundaries Respect Autonomy
“A previously married woman has more right to decide about herself (with regard to marriage) than her guardian”
Setting and honoring healthy boundaries rooted in core values; respecting her boundaries while maintaining your own; supporting independence without control