Open Communication

Communicates openly and honestly with his wife — sharing his own feelings and needs and inviting hers, resolving things by talking.

Modern relationship guidance
Send romantic messages to brighten her day and melt her heart.
Have a conversation with your wife about what she likes and dislikes before intimacy.
Ask your wife to feel free to tell you when she doesn't like something you are doing during intimacy.
Encourage your wife to talk about her preferences regarding intimacy.
Ask your wife for feedback during sexual intimacy to ensure she is enjoying herself.
Listen to and act on your wife's feedback during intimacy.
Build a relationship where she feels comfortable enough to reveal her fun side and secrets.
Prioritize your partner's intimate needs over your own desires during sex.
Ask your wife if she is satisfied during intimacy.
Make eye contact when talking to her in a friendly, inviting way that makes her feel comfortable.
Know when to stop during an interaction.
Make eye contact with your wife as a show of honesty and respect.
Prophetic example
Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 51, Hadith 16

“He then said to her, "Do not hurt me regarding Aisha, as the Divine Inspirations do not come to me on any of the beds except that of Aisha."”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 1, Hadith 3

“after that he told her everything that had happened”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 65, Hadith 311

“Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) used to take the permission of that wife with whom he was supposed to stay overnight if he wanted to go to one other than her”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 65, Hadith 475

“he said to Khadija, 'O Khadija! What is wrong with me? I was afraid that something bad might happen to me.'”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 78, Hadith 225

“O Aisha! This is Gabriel sending his greetings to you.”

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Sahih Muslim - Book 1, Hadith 308

“He then said to Khadija: O Khadija! what has happened to me? and he informed her of the happening, saying: I fear for myself.”

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Jami` at-Tirmidhi - Book 47, Hadith 256

“He said: 'O 'Aishah! I am going to mention something to you, but you should not hasten (to reply) until you have consulted your parents.'”

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Sunan Abi Dawud - Book 8, Hadith 88

“He then said: Since leaving you I have said three times four phrases which, if weighed against all that you have said (during this period), would prove to be heavier”

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Sunan an-Nasa'i - Book 42, Hadith 21

“He said: 'Jibril, peace be upon him, had promised to meet me last night but he did not come, and by Allah, he never failed to keep an appointment,'”

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