Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 67, Hadith 89
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Narrated Anas: The Prophet (ﷺ) offered a wedding banquet on the occasion of his marriage to Zainab, and provided a good meal for the Muslims. Then he went out as was his custom on marrying, he came to the dwelling places of the mothers of the Believers (i.e. his wives) invoking good (on them), and they were invoking good (on him). Then he departed (and came back) and saw two men (still sitting there). So he left again. I do not remember whether I informed him or he was informed (by somebody else) of their departure).
How the Prophet ص modelled 2 behaviours here
Gentleness & Kind Speech
“he came to the dwelling places of the mothers of the Believers (i.e. his wives) invoking good (on them)”
Is gentle and soft toward his wife in word and deed; speaks kindly and never with harshness, insult, or contempt.
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This hadith also models: Generosity & Provision
Generosity & Provision
“The Prophet (ﷺ) offered a wedding banquet on the occasion of his marriage to Zainab, and provided a good meal for the Muslims.”
Generously provides for and maintains his wife and household; is openhanded with sustenance rather than stingy.
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This hadith also models: Gentleness & Kind Speech