Gentleness & Kind Speech
Is gentle and soft toward his wife in word and deed; speaks kindly and never with harshness, insult, or contempt.
“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to kiss and embrace (his wives)”
“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to (put) bend his head (out) to me while he was in I`tikaf in the mosque during my monthly periods and I would comb and oil his hair.”
“Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) used to let his head in (the house) while he was in the mosque and I would comb and oil his hair.”
“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to embrace me during my menses.”
“The Prophet (ﷺ) collected the shattered pieces and put the food back in it and said, "Eat."”
“I saw Allah's Apostle folding a cloak round the hump of the camel so as to make a wide space for Safiya (to sit on behind him)”
“Shall I tell you a thing which is better than what you asked me for?”
“Shall I teach you a thing which is better than what you have asked me? When you go to bed, say, 'Allahu-Akbar' thirty-four times, and 'Subhan Allah thirty-three times, and 'Al hamdu-li l-lah thirty-three times for that is better for you both than a servant.”
“I often heard him mentioning her”
“I am going to mention to you something but you should not hasten (to give your reply) unless you consult your parents.”
“I am going to mention to you something, but you shall not hasten (to give your reply) unless you consult your parents.”
“Peace and Allah's Mercy be on you, O the people of the house!”
“He would greet them and invoke good on them”
“It is not wise for anyone of you to lash his wife like a slave, for he might sleep with her the same evening.”
“whenever he prostrated, he pushed my feet and I withdrew them”
“he came to the dwelling places of the mothers of the Believers (i.e. his wives) invoking good (on them)”
“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to pray while I used to sleep beside him during my periods (menses)”
“Your mother (my wife) felt jealous.”
“He said, "You have sought refuge with The Great; return to your family."”
“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to treat some of his wives by passing his right hand over the place of ailment”
“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to treat some of his wives by passing his right hand over the place of ailment”
“May Allah be merciful to you, O Anjasha! Drive the camels slowly, as they are carrying glass vessels!”
“'Shall I not tell you of a thing which is better for you than a servant? ... for that is better for you than a servant.'”
“Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) kissed (his wives)”
“There is no lack of estimation for you on the part of your husband.”
“allow you to depart a goodly departing”
“I often heard him praise her”
“He said: A'isha, what has happened to you?”
“asked her to tie a waist-wrapper over her (body) and then embraced her”
“What caused you to do that, may Allah have mercy upon you?”
“One of you should not lash his wife as a slave is lashed, for perhaps he will lay with her at the end of the day.”
“He said: "You are upon good."”
“if she refuses, he sprinkles water on her face.”
“The Prophet (ﷺ) kissed one of his wives”
“do not revile her face”
“So he prohibited him (addressing his wife in this manner)”
“Let me guide to something better than what you have asked.”
“I am going to tell you something, but you do not have to rush until you consult your parents.”
“I am going to say something to you and you do not have to rush (to make a decision) until you consult your parents.”
“O 'Aishah, I am going to say something to you and you do not have to rush (to make a decision) until you consult your parents.”
“or release her with kindness”
“'Your mother got jealous; eat.'”
“How long will one of you whip his wife like a slave, then lie with her at the end of the day?”
“He said: 'Your mother was jealous. Eat.'”
“You are Umm Abdullah”
“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to perform prayer when I was opposite to him, and his garment would sometimes touch me when he prostrated.”