Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 33, Hadith 4
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Narrated `Aisha: The Prophet (ﷺ) used to (put) bend his head (out) to me while he was in I`tikaf in the mosque during my monthly periods and I would comb and oil his hair.
How the Prophet ص modelled 2 behaviours here
Gentleness & Kind Speech
“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to (put) bend his head (out) to me while he was in I`tikaf in the mosque during my monthly periods and I would comb and oil his hair.”
Is gentle and soft toward his wife in word and deed; speaks kindly and never with harshness, insult, or contempt.
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This hadith also models: Affection & Tenderness
Affection & Tenderness
“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to (put) bend his head (out) to me while he was in I`tikaf in the mosque during my monthly periods and I would comb and oil his hair.”
Openly expresses love, affection and tenderness to his wife through warmth, closeness and kind gestures.
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This hadith also models: Gentleness & Kind Speech