Affection & Tenderness

Openly expresses love, affection and tenderness to his wife through warmth, closeness and kind gestures.

Modern relationship guidance
Approach intimacy with tenderness, passion, love, and patience.
Flirt with your wife throughout the day rather than just in the bedroom.
Woo and pamper your wife regularly.
Be romantic and make her crave you even when you are not together.
Express how attractive she is and how much you want her.
Be romantic and make your wife crave you even when you are apart.
Let her know that you are thinking about her throughout the day.
Send romantic messages to brighten her day and melt her heart.
Shower your wife with love and affection outside of the bedroom.
Treat intimacy like cooking for someone else by learning her sensitivities, limits, and preferences.
Learn your wife's physical sensitivities, limits, likes, and dislikes.
Encourage your wife to talk about her preferences regarding intimacy.
Prophetic example
Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 30, Hadith 35

“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to kiss and embrace (his wives)”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 30, Hadith 36

“Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) used to kiss some of his wives while he was fasting”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 33, Hadith 4

“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to (put) bend his head (out) to me while he was in I`tikaf in the mosque during my monthly periods and I would comb and oil his hair.”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 33, Hadith 6

“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to embrace me during my menses.”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 33, Hadith 21

“He would stretch out his head towards her while she was in her chamber.”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 56, Hadith 108

“He sat beside his camel letting his knees for Safiya to put her feet on so as to mount the camel.”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 6, Hadith 4

“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to lean on my lap”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 6, Hadith 6

“During the menses, he used to order me to put on an Izar (dress worn below the waist) and used to fondle me.”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 57, Hadith 9

“the Prophet (ﷺ) died in my house on the day of my turn while he was leaning on my chest closer to my neck”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 57, Hadith 10

“Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) got up with her and accompanied her”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 63, Hadith 41

“I often heard him mentioning her”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 63, Hadith 43

“the Prophet (ﷺ) used to mention her very often, and when ever he slaughtered a sheep, he would cut its parts and send them to the women friends of Khadija.”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 64, Hadith 461

“while he was leaning his back on me”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 64, Hadith 470

“he was taken unto Allah while his head was against my chest”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 67, Hadith 149

“he would enter upon his wives and stay with one of them.”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 78, Hadith 35

“I heard him mentioning her too often”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 78, Hadith 243

“The Prophet (ﷺ) got up to accompany her”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 80, Hadith 15

“he said, 'Stay in your places,' and sat between us, till I felt the coolness of the feet on my chest.”

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Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 97, Hadith 174

“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to recite the Qur'an with his head in my lap”

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Sahih Muslim - Book 13, Hadith 79

“the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) kissed one of his wives”

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Sahih Muslim - Book 13, Hadith 82

“Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) used to kiss (his wives) while fasting and embraced (them)”

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Sahih Muslim - Book 13, Hadith 83

“The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) used to kiss (his wives) while fasting”

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Sahih Muslim - Book 13, Hadith 84

“the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) used to embrace (his wives)”

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Sahih Muslim - Book 13, Hadith 90

“Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) kissed (his wives)”

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Sahih Muslim - Book 13, Hadith 91

“Allah's Apostle (peace be upon him) kissed (his wives) while fasting.”

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Sahih Muslim - Book 13, Hadith 92

“the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) kissed (his wives)”

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Sahih Muslim - Book 44, Hadith 107

“I often heard him praise her”

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Sahih Muslim - Book 3, Hadith 1

“embraced her”

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Sahih Muslim - Book 3, Hadith 3

“The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) contacted and embraced his wives over the waist-wrapper when they were menstruating.”

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Jami` at-Tirmidhi - Book 1, Hadith 86

“The Prophet kissed one of his wives”

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Sunan Abi Dawud - Book 1, Hadith 179

“The Prophet (ﷺ) kissed one of his wives”

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Sunan Abi Dawud - Book 14, Hadith 71

“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to kiss (me)”

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Sunan Abi Dawud - Book 14, Hadith 74

“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to kiss her and suck her tongue when he was fasting.”

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Sunan Abi Dawud - Book 1, Hadith 267

“The Prophet (ﷺ) would contact and embrace any of his wives while she was menstruating.”

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Sunan Abi Dawud - Book 1, Hadith 268

“the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) asked her to tie a waist wrapper (over her body) and then husband lay with her, or he (Shu’bah) said: embraced her.”

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Sunan Abi Dawud - Book 43, Hadith 290

“He then came and sat down between us (her and me), and I felt the coldness of his feet on my chest.”

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Sunan an-Nasa'i - Book 1, Hadith 283

“I would drink while I was menstruating, then I would hand it to the Prophet (ﷺ), and he would put his mouth where mine had been and drink.”

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Sunan an-Nasa'i - Book 3, Hadith 27

“he would embrace her chest and breasts”

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Sunan an-Nasa'i - Book 3, Hadith 28

“The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) would fondle one of his wives when she was menstruating”

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Sunan an-Nasa'i - Book 3, Hadith 32

“I would drink when I was menstruating, then I would hand it to the Prophet (ﷺ), and he would put his mouth where mine had been and drink.”

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Sunan an-Nasa'i - Book 3, Hadith 39

“He would put his head out to her while she was in her room.”

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Sunan an-Nasa'i - Book 36, Hadith 15

“Jibril sends greetings of Salam to you.”

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Sunan Ibn Majah - Book 5, Hadith 507

“the Prophet (ﷺ) used to bring his daughters and his wives out on the two ‘Eid.”

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Sunan Ibn Majah - Book 7, Hadith 142

“The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) got up to take her home.”

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Sunan Ibn Majah - Book 1, Hadith 367

“The Prophet used to bring his head close to me when I was menstruating”

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Sunan Ibn Majah - Book 1, Hadith 372

“then lie down with the Messenger of Allah.”

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