Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 30, Hadith 35
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Narrated `Aisha: The Prophet (ﷺ) used to kiss and embrace (his wives) while he was fasting, and he had more power to control his desires than any of you. Said Jabir, "The person who gets discharge after casting a look (on his wife) should complete his fast."
How the Prophet ص modelled 2 behaviours here
Gentleness & Kind Speech
“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to kiss and embrace (his wives)”
Is gentle and soft toward his wife in word and deed; speaks kindly and never with harshness, insult, or contempt.
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This hadith also models: Affection & Tenderness
Affection & Tenderness
“The Prophet (ﷺ) used to kiss and embrace (his wives)”
Openly expresses love, affection and tenderness to his wife through warmth, closeness and kind gestures.
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This hadith also models: Gentleness & Kind Speech