Honoring & Consulting
Honors and respects his wife as a dignified partner; values, seeks and acts on her opinion and counsel.
“he asked his wives to permit him to be nursed (treated) in my house.”
“I am telling you something, but you need not hurry to give the reply till you can consult your parents.”
“he asked the permission of his wives that he should be treated in my house”
“The Prophet (ﷺ) came to our house when we had gone to our beds.”
“he would say, "Khadija was such-and-such, and from her I had children."”
“he made a place for her behind him and made her observe the veil.”
“he requested his wives to permit him to be (treated) nursed in my house”
“Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) used to take the permission of that wife with whom he was supposed to stay overnight if he wanted to go to one other than her”
“came upon Khadija (his wife) and said, 'Cover me!'”
“he asked the permission of all his wives to allow him to be treated In my house”
“When `Aisha was told of the slander, she said, 'O Allah's Apostle! Will you allow me to go to my parents' home?' He allowed her”
“So if you desire I can spend a week with you, and if you like I may spend three (nights).”
“I am going to mention to you a matter which you should not (decide) in haste until you have consulted your parents.”
“Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) stood up in order to bid her good-bye.”
“He said: 'O 'Aishah! I am going to mention something to you, but you should not hasten (to reply) until you have consulted your parents.'”
“He said: "You are upon good."”
“Seek the permission of women with regard to marriage.”
“he left the matter up to her”
“O 'Aishah, I am going to say something to you and you do not have to rush (to make a decision) until you consult your parents.”
“You are Umm Abdullah”