Jami` at-Tirmidhi - Book 49, Hadith 271
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Narrated Umm Salamah: "The Prophet (ﷺ) put a garment over Al-Hasan, Al-Hussain, 'Ali and Fatimah, then he said: 'O Allah, these are the people of my house and the close ones, so remove the Rijs from them and purify them thoroughly." So Umm Salamah said: 'And am I with them, O Messenger of Allah?' He said: "You are upon good."'
How the Prophet ص modelled 2 behaviours here
Gentleness & Kind Speech
“He said: "You are upon good."”
Is gentle and soft toward his wife in word and deed; speaks kindly and never with harshness, insult, or contempt.
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This hadith also models: Honoring & Consulting
Honoring & Consulting
“He said: "You are upon good."”
Honors and respects his wife as a dignified partner; values, seeks and acts on her opinion and counsel.
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This hadith also models: Gentleness & Kind Speech