Sunan an-Nasa'i - Book 26, Hadith 74
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It was narrated from 'Aishah: "A girl came to her and said: 'My father married me to his brother's son so that he might raise his own status thereby, and I was unwilling.' She said: 'Sit here until the Prophet comes.' Then the Messenger of Allah came, and I told him (what she had said). He sent word to her father, calling him, and he left the matter up to her. She said: 'O Messenger of Allah, I accept what my father did, but I wanted to know whether women have any say in the matter.'"
How the Prophet ص modelled 2 behaviours here
Justice & Fairness
“he left the matter up to her”
Treats his wife (and co-wives) justly and equitably; honors her rights and gives her what is due without wronging her.
This hadith also models: Honoring & Consulting
Honoring & Consulting
“he left the matter up to her”
Honors and respects his wife as a dignified partner; values, seeks and acts on her opinion and counsel.
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This hadith also models: Justice & Fairness