Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 63, Hadith 41
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Narrated `Aisha: I did not feel jealous of any of the wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) as much as I did of Khadija (although) she died before he married me, for I often heard him mentioning her, and Allah had told him to give her the good tidings that she would have a palace of Qasab (i.e. pipes of precious stones and pearls in Paradise), and whenever he slaughtered a sheep, he would send her women-friends a good share of it.
How the Prophet ص modelled 3 behaviours here
Gentleness & Kind Speech
“I often heard him mentioning her”
Is gentle and soft toward his wife in word and deed; speaks kindly and never with harshness, insult, or contempt.
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This hadith also models: Generosity & Provision Affection & Tenderness
Generosity & Provision
“whenever he slaughtered a sheep, he would send her women-friends a good share of it”
Generously provides for and maintains his wife and household; is openhanded with sustenance rather than stingy.
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This hadith also models: Gentleness & Kind Speech Affection & Tenderness
Affection & Tenderness
“I often heard him mentioning her”
Openly expresses love, affection and tenderness to his wife through warmth, closeness and kind gestures.
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This hadith also models: Gentleness & Kind Speech Generosity & Provision