Sunan Ibn Majah - Book 9, Hadith 127
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It was narrated that 'Aishah said: "The Messenger of Allah used to divide his time equally among his wives, then he would say 'O Allah, this is what I am doing with regard to that which is within my control, so do not hold me accountable for that which is under Your control and is beyond my control.'"
How the Prophet ص modelled 2 behaviours here
Principled Leadership
“O Allah, this is what I am doing with regard to that which is within my control, so do not hold me accountable for that which is under Your control and is beyond my control.”
Leads the marriage from inner conviction and self-mastery rather than insecurity or ego; sets a steady, positive tone for the home.
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This hadith also models: Justice & Fairness
Justice & Fairness
“The Messenger of Allah used to divide his time equally among his wives”
Treats his wife (and co-wives) justly and equitably; honors her rights and gives her what is due without wronging her.
This hadith also models: Principled Leadership