Sahih al-Bukhari - Book 64, Hadith 253
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Narrated Anas: The Prophet (ﷺ) stayed for three rights between Khaibar and Medina and was married to Safiya. I invited the Muslim to h s marriage banquet and there wa neither meat nor bread in that banquet but the Prophet ordered Bilal to spread the leather mats on which dates, dried yogurt and butter were put. The Muslims said amongst themselves, "Will she (i.e. Safiya) be one of the mothers of the believers, (i.e. one of the wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) ) or just (a lady captive) of what his right-hand possesses" Some of them said, "If the Prophet (ﷺ) makes her observe the veil, then she will be…Narrated Anas: The Prophet (ﷺ) stayed for three rights between Khaibar and Medina and was married to Safiya. I invited the Muslim to h s marriage banquet and there wa neither meat nor bread in that banquet but the Prophet ordered Bilal to spread the leather mats on which dates, dried yogurt and butter were put. The Muslims said amongst themselves, "Will she (i.e. Safiya) be one of the mothers of the believers, (i.e. one of the wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) ) or just (a lady captive) of what his right-hand possesses" Some of them said, "If the Prophet (ﷺ) makes her observe the veil, then she will be one of the mothers of the believers (i.e. one of the Prophet's wives), and if he does not make her observe the veil, then she will be his lady slave." So when he departed, he made a place for her behind him (on his and made her observe the veil.
How the Prophet ص modelled 3 behaviours here
Justice & Fairness
“he made a place for her behind him and made her observe the veil.”
Treats his wife (and co-wives) justly and equitably; honors her rights and gives her what is due without wronging her.
This hadith also models: Protective Care Honoring & Consulting
Protective Care
“he made a place for her behind him and made her observe the veil.”
Protects his wife's safety, dignity and wellbeing, and stands up for her.
This hadith also models: Justice & Fairness Honoring & Consulting
Honoring & Consulting
“he made a place for her behind him and made her observe the veil.”
Honors and respects his wife as a dignified partner; values, seeks and acts on her opinion and counsel.
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This hadith also models: Justice & Fairness Protective Care